(This page includes the photographic and scanned versions of the letter for easy reading)
Translation in English (original Chinese content) are as follows:
I have always longed to find a Christian partner, but there are no suitable people around me because there are few brothers of the same age in the church. Although I have participated in some fellowship activities organized by the Christian church, I feel that it is difficult to have a deep understanding of potential partners in activities with many people participating at the same time. In addition, being introverted makes it more difficult to meet a partner.
Thanks to Faith to Date, I met J… for the first time when I participated in dating. At first, I was not very interested in him, but I understand that the first impression is not enough to fully understand a person, so I also try to be open and let us have more opportunities to understand each other. After many communications, I gradually found that he has many admirable places, and then we naturally got together.
I have also experienced the time of waiting painfully. Later, I realized that I can’t just wait. When I haven’t met him, I need to prepare myself well. Read more books on weekdays, pay attention to what is happening around you, enrich your topics; know and understand yourself more, review your areas for improvement/improvement, etc.; when you encounter a potential partner that can be developed, share/pray with your peers more, They will become your important pillar behind you.
Thanks again to Faith to Date for their help. This is a very good platform. They are very helpful in helping single brothers and sisters find partners, and also thank them for their prayers. At the same time, bless the brothers and sisters, and meet your other half as soon as possible.
< Original Text >
一直以來都渴望尋找基督徒伴侶,但身邊苦無合適對象,因教會同年齡層的弟兄很少。雖曾參與一些基督教舉辦的聯誼活動,但感覺多人同時參與的活動很難與個別對象有深入認識,加上性格內向,令結識伴侶更困難。
感謝Faith to Date,讓我第一次參與Dating就認識了J…。起初對他不太感興趣,但我明白初見印象不足以完全認識一個人,所以自己也嘗試開放,讓大家有多些機會互相了解。經過多次溝通後,逐漸發現到他有很多值得欣賞的地方,後來就很自然地走在一起。
我也曾經歷苦苦等待的時候,後來明白到,也不能只是等待,在未遇上他的時候,也要好好預備自己。平日多看書,留意身邊發生的事,豐富自己的話題;多認識和了解自己,檢討自己可進步/改善的地方等;在遇到可發展的對象時,多與同行者分享/禱告,他們會成為你背後的重要支柱。
再次感謝Faith to Date的幫忙,這是一個很好的平台,很有心的幫助單身的弟兄姊妹尋找伴侶,也感謝他們的代禱。同時祝福弟兄姊妹們,早日遇到屬於你們的另一半。
(All glory to the Lord)