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Translation in English (original Chinese content) are as follows:
To the team at Faith-to-date:
I am grateful to have found my another half through this spiritual platform. I hope the following sharing can give brothers and sisters in the Lord some aspirations and positive attitudes/methods to use this platform.
I also thank the staff of faith-to-date for their patient listening, which allowed me to find, and I hope the following sharing can thank them for their professional service.
Firstly,
due to factors such as my introverted and reserved personality, it is difficult for me to find my other half in the church. Other external factors such as mismatched age groups, the environment under COVID-19, less interaction with brothers, not meeting my expectations, mismatched interests or topics, crowd pressure, etc., have made me question myself, whether I am not of high quality and therefore unable to find my soulmate. Although my salaries may not be high, my education level and looks are quite satisfied. I also found that I could not take a step forward to seek, so I chose Faith-to-date, a platform specifically set up for Christians, to find like-minded brothers with similar values, to increase my chances of interacting with the opposite sex (because I once attended a girls’ school), thinking that if I can’t meet my other half in the end, I will always have an explanation for my single problem.
Because I have always been vague about the concept of finding a partner, I am grateful that Miss Chan can listen carefully and analyze my background, so that I have some understanding of the concept and know what type of men I need or are suitable for. The ones she suggested are also good choices, one of them is very sincere, not only did he make a handiwork for me, but he also didn’t mind sending me home though traveling far, and even took a special leave to meet with me, all of which gave me a good impression of him and kept gaining affinity of him.
All the happy things above let me know that I should have confidence and cherish this brother. I also appreciate his talent, experience in handling problems, ambition, etc., and put him in the No. 1 potential guy in my Wish list, and then let nature take its course and be together.
Finally, thank you to the staff of faith-to-date (especially Miss Chan), may the Heavenly Father take care of your customers, so that you can successfully match different single brothers and sisters.
A girl who met her partner through faithtodate
給Faith-to-date之團隊同工:
感恩可以透過此屬靈平台找到另一半,希望以下分享可以給主內弟兄姊妹一些憧憬及正面的態度/方法使用此平台,我亦感謝faith-to-date的職員耐心的聆聽,讓我找到,並希望以下分享可以答謝他們的專業服務。
首先,基於小女性格內向、內斂等等因素令自己難以在教會內找到另一半,其他外在因素如年齡層不配對、COVID-19的環境下,較少與弟兄有互動、不合心水、興趣或話題不合、群眾壓力等問題,亦曾經質疑自己,是否不夠高質而未能找到。但筆者自問自己雖然人工不高,但學歷、顏值也不算低,又發現自己因未能向前走多一步去尋覓,故此我選擇了Faith-to-date此專為基督徒設立的平台,去找志同道合,價值觀相似的弟兄認識一下,增加自己與異性相處的機會(因自己曾讀女校),心諗,自己最後結識不到另一半,對自己的單身問題都總有交待。
因為一直自己找對象的概念也頗模糊,感恩陳小姐可以用心聆聽及分析我的背景,令自己的概念稍為有認識,知道自己需要或適合哪類型的男生。她所建議的也是不錯選擇,當中的一位更十分有誠意,不但自己整手工送給我,又不介意long d送我回家,更為了我特別請假與我聚會,這都令我對距有好好的印象,不斷加距分。
以上種種開心的事都令我知道自己應該有自信,及要珍惜這位弟兄,我亦欣賞他才華,處理問題的經歷,上進心等等,並放了他入Wish list嘅Number 1 potential guy, 之後順其自然並一齊咗。
最後,感謝faith-to-date的職員(尤其係陳小姐),願天父看顧你們的客戶,令你們能成功撮合到不同的單身弟兄姊妹。
透過faithtodate認識伴侶的女生
(All glory to the Lord)