(FaithToDate real case)
Sham, a 31-year-old sister, worked as an accountant. Her work was inherently very busy, and she also had to study for the accountant license in her spare time. She hardly had time to meet the opposite sex. She had a quiet, slow-warming personality, and not many hobbies. Even if she can spare some time in her busy schedule, she only likes to go hiking, play badminton, and participate in volunteer activities with her same-sex friends. To expand her social circle, she chose Faith To Date.
Jay, a 37-year-old brother, was a bank service manager. Unlike Sham, Jay was a talkative person, both in his personality and his work needs. But no matter how much he talked, he still did not find his ideal partner, because what he pursued was a girl who rarely appeared in his life circle. He felt that the girls he met in his work environment and through general dating apps were materialistic, and what he longed for was simplicity and authenticity. He hoped to find a quiet, pure, and simple girl.
To become lovers, a man and a woman are like two pieces of a puzzle. They often have to complement each other’s shortcomings. Sham’s gentleness and quietness were exactly what attracted Jay. Jay loved children and often interacted with them in his church service. His considerate, talkative, and loving personality also made Sham fall for him. They had endless conversations when they met for the first time. Jay created a lively atmosphere, and Sham was willing to open her heart. Finally, on Valentine’s Day, which was their fourth meeting, Jay’s confession made them a couple.
Looking back on their love journey, Sham felt that she had to be sincere to herself and others, and not lose herself in the process. Jay thought that he had to try again and again, and not be discouraged by rejection. He also had to learn from his experience, and adjust his mindset and understand his needs. Of course, they both agreed that waiting for God’s arrangement through prayer was an important part of their love quest.
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